On November 17, 2011, I achieved 60 years on this tiny, green planet. There are milestones and then there milestones. I guess 60 is as good a place to stop and look at life as any. Some people decide to do something special, something daring, even dangerous to commemorate this landmark in their life, but since I’m afraid of heights (that rules out skydiving) and I’m in no shape to climb Mt. Everest. Something a little more down to earth was in order for my 60th birthday.

I like history and I enjoy writing, so this idea began rattling around in my head as the big 6-0 approached. What if I invited friends and family, in honor of my birthday, to write about life, their THOUGHTS, and the past 60 years? I would certainly welcome their best wishes, memories and stories about our past together, especially stories, but I did not want to limit WHAT they wrote about and HOW they shared it. A poem, an essay, pictures, photos, a DVD or a tape recording were all acceptable submissions for this project.

I was looking for both humor and insight into the human condition. What made us who we are? What shaped us? Who were our mentors and teachers? What were our triumphs and failures, our joys and our tears? What lessons have we learned? What makes life worth living? If they have some great truth about life, I invited them to share it with me. What is their take on the past 60 years on this planet? I was after their…THOUGHTS!

I asked them to put some real feeling into what they submit for this project. I considered their submissions a special gift, a 60th birthday present to me. Realizing that such a request might be overwhelming or intimidating for some, I said that thoughts and best wishes were more than enough of a present for me.

Well my friends and family did not disappoint. My daughter, Erin, sent me 60 of her favorite memories of us together, complete with pictures. Many of you sent insightful messages about life and aging to encourage me. Some, like my brother, made me laugh with his 6 truisms about life. I created this blog to share some of the wonderful responses and birthday wishes I received when my request went out. I want to thank all of you who participated in my project from the bottom of my heart. Thank you!

But the project is not over! I want to use this blog to continue to share your THOUGHTS on turning 60. Use this blog to share your wisdom and insights about life and I will continue to post them here.

Send your submissions to:

sortman808@aol.com (subject: “The 60 Years Project”)

Saturday, November 19, 2011

You Have the Power


Stevie --

Still mulling this over, but offhand, here are some things I believe about being 60 years old -- 60 is the new 40.  Maybe 45.  With our medical advances and nutritional/exercise knowledge, we who are turning 60 soon have the bodies, and mindsets, of a 40-45 year old.  That said, you are responsible for keeping your body and mind healthy and young!  You appear to be doing that on both counts.  Also, according to all my nursing and psychology texts, a 60 y.o. is still considered middle aged.  You don't hit old age for another 10 years or so, and again, it goes back to keeping your body and mind healthy and young.  I'm sure you know, as I do, 60 year olds who look, act, and think like an 80 year old.  By the same token, you have seen 60 y.olds who look, act, and think like a 40 year old.  I know people who are in their 70's, early 80's who act and feel younger than some I know who are 60-ish.  You have the power to make your 60 what you want.  To me, it's young! 

Margaret

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