On November 17, 2011, I achieved 60 years on this tiny, green planet. There are milestones and then there milestones. I guess 60 is as good a place to stop and look at life as any. Some people decide to do something special, something daring, even dangerous to commemorate this landmark in their life, but since I’m afraid of heights (that rules out skydiving) and I’m in no shape to climb Mt. Everest. Something a little more down to earth was in order for my 60th birthday.

I like history and I enjoy writing, so this idea began rattling around in my head as the big 6-0 approached. What if I invited friends and family, in honor of my birthday, to write about life, their THOUGHTS, and the past 60 years? I would certainly welcome their best wishes, memories and stories about our past together, especially stories, but I did not want to limit WHAT they wrote about and HOW they shared it. A poem, an essay, pictures, photos, a DVD or a tape recording were all acceptable submissions for this project.

I was looking for both humor and insight into the human condition. What made us who we are? What shaped us? Who were our mentors and teachers? What were our triumphs and failures, our joys and our tears? What lessons have we learned? What makes life worth living? If they have some great truth about life, I invited them to share it with me. What is their take on the past 60 years on this planet? I was after their…THOUGHTS!

I asked them to put some real feeling into what they submit for this project. I considered their submissions a special gift, a 60th birthday present to me. Realizing that such a request might be overwhelming or intimidating for some, I said that thoughts and best wishes were more than enough of a present for me.

Well my friends and family did not disappoint. My daughter, Erin, sent me 60 of her favorite memories of us together, complete with pictures. Many of you sent insightful messages about life and aging to encourage me. Some, like my brother, made me laugh with his 6 truisms about life. I created this blog to share some of the wonderful responses and birthday wishes I received when my request went out. I want to thank all of you who participated in my project from the bottom of my heart. Thank you!

But the project is not over! I want to use this blog to continue to share your THOUGHTS on turning 60. Use this blog to share your wisdom and insights about life and I will continue to post them here.

Send your submissions to:

sortman808@aol.com (subject: “The 60 Years Project”)

Saturday, November 19, 2011

2011 Thoughtful Reflections on 60 Years:


Hi Steve,

Your 60th birthday idea is very good, you are such a creative thinker.
Here is my response..

I think older age can take us unto two (at least two) different 
directions, one going into the past, and one going into the future, 
and there is also a path that learns to stay in the here and now, a 
path that Eckart Tolle talkes about especially in his book titled, 
Now. This could be called the middle path and or walking into the 
center fork in the road, so to speak.

I will be 80 this coming July and my ways of thinking about the past 
is "appreciation", appreciating for everything and everyone, and that 
is all that it is. Not much more than that. The past does count for 
getting us to the places where we find ourselves in the Now, and 
certainly count for some importance.

On the other side, thinking about the future seems to belong to 
another realm completely, A very important reality,  one that the 
logical brain can not seem to form into anything relating to the 
present. Things are in a flux of change and moving very rapidly and 
it seems to be going forward at remarkable speed.

To my way of thinking, we must learn to let go. This letting go calls 
for drastic change in many ways, being we form patterns of ingrained 
thinking over the years. We are finding the importance 0f letting go 
of old patterns and beliefs. Many things such as religion, 
relationships, careers, finances, possessions, and yes, even memories.

  Of course the future is not here and either is the past. All we 
have is this moment and that is so very important. How we entertain 
our thoughts will create tomorrow.

Your ideas and offer for writing about the past sounds like fun and 
could be very interesting. However, I am just not there.

For many people, life at this time, is like floating down a rushing 
stream, we are either going to hang on to what ever we can along the 
way, or we are going to just let go in trust and enjoy the ride while 
looking forward, not in fear, but with anticipation for a brighter 
more beautiful future.

We have entered a new world, the past is fading away, fast, and we 
are waking up to a future not quite within sight, but getting there. 
Creative people, such as yourself are the visionaries and the leaders 
of a new consciousness, and it is beyond any logical description. I 
imagine there will be very little comparison with this present world.

With Love,
Your friend,
Marilyn Howard  3/23/11

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